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Dear Dr. Betty,As you can see, my clitoris is big and I'm kind of ashamed. It use to be normal (meaning small) until I got my period, then it started to swell up. I haven't been to a doctor but I soon will (my appt is in 3 weeks). I've only had sex with one guy and I was feeling weird cause I thought he would say something. But he didn't. Is my clit normal, or is there something wrong with me? Jeny |
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Dear Jeny,
As a sexologist who has viewed thousands of clitorises, let me reassure you that you have a normal clit that just happens to be big. Yes, it's larger than many I've seen, but that's a reason to CELEBRATE, not to be ashamed. I have seen a few clits that could match yours and then some.
Imagine a man with a large penis. Do you think he would be ashamed or proud? Most likely he'd "accidentally" drop his towel in the locker room just to show off and make the other guys jealous. Celebrate my dear woman, celebrate.
Do NOT allow a doctor to perform reduction surgery on you. Your clitoris will not only give you a lifetime of sexual pleasures, it will also fascinate, captivate, and entertain your lovers until you chose one to marry. The next time you begin to worry, just remember there are many men who adore big clits and some spend their lives searching for one.
I urge you to develop Clit Pride and learn to enjoy the pleasure and orgasms that small, medium and large clitorises provide.
Betty