Dear Betty, (Cont,)

I've always liked the way my dick and balls look. My circumcised dick is usually really small when flaccid, maybe 1" long at most. As for my balls, they have always clung tightly up against my body and rarely do they hang low. While sexually aroused I'm probably a little under average in length at about 5 1/4" and about the same in diameter.

I never gave my dick a name and I still don't call it anything other than my "dick and balls." The notion that my dick has a mind of it's own is silly to me. I view my biggest sex organ to be the gray matter between my ears. My sexual fantasies and thoughts have given me more masturbation pleasure than anything else.

My methods for masturbation have evolved over the years as have my sexual interests and the extent to which I'm willing to explore myself. In my teenage years I masturbated by doing pull-ups while hanging naked and sporting an erection. After about 9 or so pull-ups, I would ejaculate with such an intensity that I can't even begin to describe. I never needed to touch myself to cum back then, and I preferred not touching myself because this method worked so well for me. After leaving home at age 18, I resorted to masturbating into socks (dry stimulation) and by hand (dry also) since I had no suitable place to hang and cum. I've experimented over the years stimulating myself while incorporating anal play, something which brings me maximum pleasure.

The two most exciting things I've been into since I discovered masturbation is: Shaving my genitals completely smooth, and tasting my precum and semen to excite myself even more.

I never had much pubic hair to begin with in my teenage years, so I just shaved off what little I had. I've been completely shaved smooth ever since, with only a few occasions growing it out. I never felt good about having a bush down there so I continued to shave it off. When I get naked and start masturbating I like to see and feel my genitals in their full glory without any hair.

Tasting my precum and swallowing my semen while masturbating was a natural progression from youthful curiosity, overcoming teenage and adult male inhibitions, and finally coming to accept it as a natural and thrilling interest of mine. My very first ejaculation was a powerful influence on me when I decided to taste the white stuff that oozed out of my dick. I've been hooked on tasting my own sex juices ever since, and I also love seeing other people taste themselves.

I've always had what I believe to be excessive precum. So I wipe up the excess and lick it as I stroke myself. When I'm especially horny, I like to lay on my back and swing my legs over my head and shoot my cum into my mouth, often using a kitchen funnel to get it all down my throat before I chicken out. Many guys will know what I'm talking about there. Another thing I like to do when I'm really horny is to cum on food and in drinks so I can consume them. This really gets me all turned on while masturbating.

My wife is well aware of my interests in licking up sex juices and she often helps me satisfy my desires by feeding me my cum. Because she's not as comfortable with these activities as I am, we have an understanding that I do not pressure her into anything. However, she occasionally asks me to go down on her after I've cum in her and "eat her cream-pie." We often incorporate this into our repertoire of love making. She's more comfortable feeding my desires this way than seeing me serve myself in masturbation. I respect her wishes, and I do most of my cum eating activities on my own.

My fantasies have evolved over the years, depending on my age and my relationship status. As I've aged I've become more and more explorative and open minded. Also, being married for over a decade has definitely helped make many of my fantasies come true. Sharing fantasies with my wife can often be even more exciting for me than going solo.

My favorite fantasy involves another couple joining me and my wife for sexual relations together. The idea of my wife having sex with another man drives me wild. We both explore these fantasies together and get a lot of enjoyment out of them.

You have a wonderful masturbation crusade going on here, and your web site certainly helps spread the word to encourage others to find their masturbation pleasures in peace.

Sincerely, Ken
S.F. California