Dr. Betty,

I'm a freshman in college and I just turned 18. I'm not gay but my two roommates are. They are 17 and 18. I walked in on them several times while they were either masturbating alone or giving each other hand jobs. Strangely, they are never phased or shy about it and continue on until they cum. They even have conversations with me which is entertaining as they have to break off in mid-sentence when they begin ejaculating.

I don't have anything against gay and I appreciate their needs and in fact I think it's great they are out of the closet and so open about sex. I had a gay friend growing up who had problems dealing with his sexuality.

This past summer semester, they walked in on me while I was masturbating. It was embarrassing for me but they were really cool about it. We talked a lot and they turned me onto your web site. I still have occasional intercourse but I also masturbate often now, thanks to them and to you.

Lately, however, we have been masturbating each other too. I've learned a lot about different techniques and sensations from this and it has even helped me with intercourse. I have probably never cum harder in my life which I really like. Should I be worried about anything like STDs or injury from doing it often? Will this mean I'll become gay and stop liking intercourse? You provide a great service.

Thanks,
Dean, CA