Would like to know if it is okay to have my cousin masturbate me. I am 22 and she is 19. One night we drank a little and later found ourselves naked and she was giving me a handjob. We don't have any romantic feelings for each other and we saw it as just helping each other out.

Dear Betty,

I would like to know if it is okay to have my cousin masturbate me. I am 22 and she is 19. One night we drank a little and later found ourselves naked and she was giving me a handjob. All I did to her was fondle her breasts. We both enjoyed making each other feel good but we are worried that what we have done is wrong. We always hated the idea of incest but we are not even sure if this is considered incest, what do you think? We don't have any romantic feelings for each other and we saw it as just helping each other out. We would appreciate your opinion.

Sincerely,
Doug

19 yr. old first cousin had never sees a penis. After a party, I got honry after feeling her breasts and she wound up giving me a hand-job. We have become very close since that night and it hasn't made us feel awkward around each other yet. What do you think?

Dear Betty,

I am 21 years old and up until a couple of nights ago I had no sexual experience of any kind. That night we had a little party and after midnight everyone left except me and my 19 yr. old first cousin. We got to talking and she had less experience than I did as she had never even seen a penis in real life. Well I decided to show her so I took off my clothes. She then pulled up her top and showed me her breasts which I felt of with much curiousity since it was the first time I had ever touched a bare breast. I told her it would be ok if she wanted to feel of my penis which she did.

I was already aroused from seeing her breasts but the touch of her hand really got me going. I don't know how to explain it but something came over me and I didn't care she was my cousin. I wanted to be satisfied so I got her to give me a handjob since she wasnt interested in the blowjob idea. Anyway she made me cum like I never had by my own hand and she did it again when we awoke the next morning.

What I am wondering is do you think it is wrong for my cousin to give me a handjob? We feel that we are both consenting adults just trying to ease our curiousities about sex. We have become very close since that night and it hasn't made us feel awkward around each other yet. What do you think?

Thanks
Richie


Dear Cousins,

Since many of the Royal families in Europe married their cousins and had full-blown sex with offspring, it would seem like a little manual sex is harmless. However you both have your parents, your relatives, and your friends to consider. The chances are good that they would see two nude cousins with one getting a hand job as sexual activity and therefore incestuous.

Dump the guilt and play it safe. Find other girls to be sexual with. My big objection to what took place is she gave you a hand job and all she got was a little breast fondling.

When you find another girlfriend just remember that her tits are not a primary source of arousal. Like your penis feels good when it's touched so will a woman's clitoris feel good when it's touched. Of course you need to do this tenderly with skill so ask your next girlfriend to show you what she likes.

Until you find another playmate, masturbate more.

Betty

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