Cheers Betty,

I, age 70, and my wife, age 66, are retired. We continue to enjoy intimate moments on a regular basis. We each also enjoy alone-time. After some brief explanations, I have three questions for you.

When we are fresh, our once-weekly love making starts with cuddling and deep kissing. I then scratch my wife's back to make her comfortable and sensitive to my caresses all over her body. After a few minutes of this, I get up on all fours and kiss the soft, sensitive parts of her face, neck, arms, belly, and breasts. I devote particular attention to her left breast, which she has told me is very sensitive to my kisses, sucking, and gentle nipple biting. While doing this, I wet my index and middle finger to simultaneously and alternately massage my wife's G spot and clit. She, in turn, strokes my cock to the edge of ejaculating. To keep from cumming outside of her, I pull away slightly, and she stops stroking for a few minutes, and then continues again until I again pull away. We repeat this four to five times.

While she is edging me, I go down on her flicking her clit from above. When her cunt is good and wet, I get between her legs and start tongue lapping her, first with my whole tongue on her outer lips about 20 times from bottom to top. Next, I lick the areas between her inner and outer lips from bottom to top about 10 times on each side. By this time she is moaning in anticipation. I respond by inserting my tongue between her inner lips as far as it can go and run it up and down about 20 times reaching and flicking her clit on each run up. When she puts her hand on my head, I suck her clit between my lips and slowly massage it with the tip of my tongue until she reaches a smashing orgasm. I continue this until she begs me to stop as she is too sensitive for any additional tongue lashing.

After my wife catches her breath, I put my arms under her legs so that her calves rest on my shoulders. She reaches between her legs and starts stroking my cock again to pump it up, and massages her clit and inner lips with its head. When she can stand this no longer, she puts the head of my cock in her cunt. I then plunge in and out as slowly as I can stand. Usually I can get 10 or fewer in-and-outs before I cum. This prompts my first question. How can I last for more than 10 strokes increasing the duration of her pleasure?

About every two months, my wife changes our love making routine by rolling me over on my back before I get a chance to go down on her. She instead sucks my cock until it is good and hard, straddles me, and inserts my cock into her wet cunt. Sometimes she faces me and deeply kisses me while riding. She usually gets 15 or more rocks out of me before I cum. Her other position while doing this is facing away from me, toward my feet. That position is so intense for me that she gets only about 5 rocks out of it before I cum. She continues in this position until I go soft. Unfortunately, I enjoy this much more than she does. She will not let me go down on her after a session like this. My next question is, what can I do to give her a longer, more enjoyable time on top while she is in total control?

During my wife's alone-time days, she goes about solo getting her hair done and/or shopping. She has her own beautiful sports car that I bought for her just to serve this purpose. Almost immediately after she leaves the house, I retire to my home office to watch a slide show of mature, naked women on my computer. I am particularly fond of lush, gaping, trimmed, granny vintage cunts. While watching the show, I slowly edge myself at least four times before blowing my wad. I thoroughly enjoy this session and do it at least once a week. As far as I know, my wife is unaware of my wank sessions. This slide show prompts my third and last question. Do the smiling, mature women who pose for the pictures I watch know that they are encouraging or causing me and others to masturbate?

My once-a-week alone-time days consist of riding my Harley with a group of senior people from neighboring towns. This motorcycle riding group includes men and women. I have no idea what my dear and loving wife does when I am away from our home. I have not asked and don't intend to. It is her alone-time to spend as she wishes. To my knowledge, we have both been faithful to our 45-year marriage. We each have had ample opportunity to look the other way, but have resisted doing so.

I am a recent visitor to your site, and find it informative, interesting, exciting, and fascinating. I have shared the above personal information and its resultant questions with no one else. Doing so with you and your readers is a pleasure.

Be well Betty

Deah
UK

[Orgasms for Two, info]

Dear Deah,

What a delightful design for successful long term marital sex. Congratulations! I really appreciate all the details you shared about your sexlife. This type of sharing gives others an idea of some of things that happen behind all those closed bedroom doors. Now for your questions:

Q: How can I last for more than 10 strokes increasing the duration of her pleasure?

A: Get my book "Orgasms for Two" (I believe it's still published in the UK). I have a chapter that describes ways to last longer. The trick will be to remain relaxed in mind and body as your arousal mounts. This takes lots of practice.

Q: What can I do to give her a longer, more enjoyable time on top while she is in total control?

A: Same as above but in case you lose interest in practicing how to tolerate higher levels of sexual excitement without shooting, have a dildo handy that's similar in size to your penis and hold it in place while she enjoys herself.

Q:Do the smiling, mature women who pose for the pictures I watch know that they are encouraging or causing me and others to masturbate?

A: I'm sure most of them know that's the purpose of posing for the photos.

Betty

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