Subject: Intense Masturbation Syndrome
DEAR MADAM,

I am getting my m.phil in English literature. I have seen your address from my computer yahoo search. I have a problem and hope you can solve it. I am suffering from intense masturbation syndrome.

Lets discuss. I usually masturbate when I am tense and even when I am not tense. I masturbate so violently that I injure myself although I am not a masochist. Now what I am facing is intense masturbation. What I want is how to control my intense masturbation so that I am not affecting my mental capabilities or decreasing my bodily powers, you know better than me. Here I am mailing you for help any type of help [medicine or any treatment] that can control my intense masturbation.

I masturbate so violently that I feel weakness i.e [3 to 4 times a day or 2 times a day or 1 time is often] that has caused not only erectile problem but also premaure education etc. Can it be treated? Can I take drugs [consulted] on your advice? Hope to hear from you soon and hope of treating my problem. If can't provide me any help please tell me another person to consult or refer it to any other doctor.

Thanks.
Rashtoon

Dear Rashtoon, Since I'm assuming you are a young man in your twenties, masturbating once or twice a day is healthy. When you do it many times a day fast and hard, you are not circulating your sexual energy and having a nice relaxing orgasm. Instead of making love to yourself, it sounds like you are angry and attacking your penis with violence, grabbing it and hurting him. As a woman, I would not want my body to be handled this way. I'm sure your penis doesn't like it either and is rebelling by not getting hard. This anger toward your sex organ is making you tense and not giving you the relaxation we feel after having a climax. Change your masturbation technique right NOW. View masturbation as a meditation on loving your body mind and spirit. Find a quiet space so you can devote at least thirty minutes to this exercise. Get some natural oil, peanut or sesame seed and start off massaging your penis and apologizing for all the abuse you have given it. Slowly touch yourself and pay attention to what you are feeling. This kind of conscious masturbation will slow down your brain waves, deepen your breathing and quiet all the internal chatter in your head. With your new kind appoach to your penis, you may no longer have a premature ejaculation problem. As a student who must compete and study hard to get good grades, conscious masturbation will keep you sane. Forget pills and medication. Instead turn this new kind of sexual meditation. Let me know how you do. Betty