Hi Betty,

Warmest congratulations on your brilliant site and the terrific liberation through masturbation that it brings! All those gorgeous clits and cunts, and a few charming tits too - so much more exciting and mysterious than penises thrusting in vaginas either in porn by a male partner where most of them grunt, cum and roll over. My husband was was a manic-depressive who was unable to function sexually sometimes, which was frustrating to say the least. And then the poor man had a heart-attack.

I am 62, still very sexy, and I believe, an attractive widow with a 19 year old daughter about to leave home. I've finally decided to 'come out' as bisexual. I used to shag other girls when very young and thoroughly enjoyed it, then had a few fun sessions with buxom dyky girlfriends, but they were married and it became too difficult to progress further, and then I got married. I do like men, and enjoy having sex with them sometimes (or used to - celibate since 1997), except that I find cocks physically unappealing.

I confess that absolutely nothing turns me on like the sight of the divinely complex and flower-like clits and cunts, and even large superb breasts, which I have myself so that really is 'self-love' with a vengeance, isn't it? I'm fairly desperately hoping to meet someone with, literally, similar 'tastes' but the difficulty is that I live in a charming town in the UK absolutely bursting with 'matrons' my own age - whom I generally prefer - except that they are all so apparently respectable that the chances of my 'connecting' with someone like me are remote.

I'm currently madly in love with a girlfriend, very beautiful and even a little older than me, but in spite of her being incredibly flirtatious with men and women, claims to be straight. So it's a deeply frustrating Unrequited Love with her at the moment (except with myself). I must say your fabulous Art Gallery will help a lot with that for awhile.

What I want to ask you is do you have an organization in London where I could go and not feel quite so isolated in my private longings for lovely ladies to talk to - and maybe even compare clits with? I would love to come to one of your workshops. Any chance of you setting one up this side of the 'pond'? You are doing a really great service for womankind. Thank you. Would love to meet you one day.

Best wishes,
Marge