Dear Ellie, I had a client just yesterday who said the same thing, "I have no feeling in my clit." When we did the genital exam, her clitoris looked quite healthy and average. Perhaps a bit neglected since she never masturbated, but nothing appeared suspicious. We started off with a genital massage with my nice Almond oil, all around her inner and outer lips, over and under her clitoral glans. She expected some sort of sensation immediately but it took 15 minutes of trying out different strokes on her clit before she felt what she called a "shock" that went away instantly. After THREE hours of clitoral stimulation by hand, battery vibrator, the Passionette and finally the Magic Wand all with vaginal penetration with my Barbell, she had an orgasm. The point of this is to tell you to spend several hours trying different forms of stimulation while you are alone. Get my book "Sex for One" and the Passionette or Passionette and finally the Magic Wand. Read my info on the best use of the electric vibrator and start masturbating. Patience and practice will pay off every time. Betty