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Hi BettyNot long ago, we had a family meeting and agreed to go naked around the house. I initially was "accidentally" caught naked by my mom any dad downstairs one night. I had just washed my bra and panties and was getting a sandwich. Dad was always uptight about nudity and mom wasn't. He told me to get my p.j.s on and I said, "Get with the times, Dad. Janet Jackson showed her breasts on world wide television. I'm just showing mine in our kitchen. And anyway you have seen them dozens of times before. Mom couldn't stop laughing and that might sparked a family meeting next day. I'm a 20 year old university student, my sister, Nan, is 18 and my young brother Tim, 16. My father is 43 and mother 41. I told Nan and Tin about the night before and said I thought we should all go nude when it was warm. Dad voted no, Nan wasn't sure, and Tim's vote was an enthusiastic yes (to women's breasts). Mom settled the matter saying she thought it was healthy and would make us more trusting and unified. Then she kissed Dad and he blushed... I love surfing the web for nudist info and pictures and came across your name when I typed in the word "cunt" into a search engine. I showed your site to my siblings and to my parents who then said it was O.K. for us to use the slang terminology at home. I have always thought of my genitals as "a cunt" so it was nice being able to openly say it. I also saw a lot on masturbation on your site and others. I really love to masturbate a lot and I've talked to friends at school, to my siblings too, and they all said they do it as well too. Nudity is one thing at home, but masturbation is quite another thing. I have a feeling we would all really like to be able to masturbate in the open at home as well. Do you think we should ask our parents if we can do this or is it pushing it too far? Naked Robyn
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Dear Naked Robyn,
I think it's great that your family has agreed to the freedom of nudity in the home. It's very healthy for people to spend time in their bodies and let their skin breathe. It also normalizes our bodies and we learn to be more comfortable in them. But when it comes to masturbation, well, that's another matter. Playing with your own sex organ privately is a way for you to learn about your sexual body and how it responds to different kinds of stimulation. Sharing masturbation with your siblings or parents would be a form of group sex and could be classified as "incest." Since incest is illegal, I'd have to visit you all in jail if one you told a friend who told her mother who told the minister at the local church. So yes, I think bringing this up would be pushing everyone too far. Just enjoy your family nudity and masturbate privately. You can always have discussions about how you make love to yourselves and share different techniques over breakfast. Otherwise, leave well enough alone and enjoy the freedom you have now.
Betty