Phone sex can be very smutty, highly romantic, or anything in between. Nasty and starry-eyed, naughty and nice, aren't either/or options - they exist on a continuum. In fact, who says you can't be naughty and romantic at the same time? ( Exhibitionism for the Shy by Carol Queen )

Wondering what to talk about over the phone? For starters, here is a list of 12 most common sexual fantasies:

• Having sex in a public place.
• Having sex with more than one or a multitude of partners.
• Having sex in a place where there's a risk of getting caught.
• Having sex out in nature or some other appealing setting.
• Being sexually taken, possessed or dominated.
• Being in complete sexual control of a partner.
• Being a virgin or a sexually inexperienced person.
• Having sex with a priest, nun, or some forbidden partner.
• Having sex that includes a focus on anal sex.
• Imagining that you are a member of the opposite sex.
• Having sex with a member of your own sex.
• Pretending to be a celebrity (Demi Moore, Brad Pitt maybe).