Dear Betty,

I have been searching the net for the big answer to my big questions. So far I'm not ok with any of the answers. Im a married man and I love my wife very much. I'd love to make her squirt but I dont know how. We spend a lot of time doing stuff but no squirt. I remember the times she cries out from joy but those times were unplanned. Even if I want to reach that height again either its unreachable or too hard.

So whats your golden advice for me? I'd love to make my sex life a real fantasy for us both. The other thing dear Betty is I cum so fast and I tire so fast. My penis needs to have some rest like 10 minutes until the second erection. Sometimes this happens at the wrong time when its needed to be at the height of action. So please guide me. Im 26 and Ive been married for 2 years.

Roberto

[Orgasms for Two, info]

Dear Roberto,

You are on the right track by seeking information. You would definitely benefit from reading my book "Orgasms for Two." Make sure you check out the chapter "Especially for Men." Through practicing conscious masturbation, you can train yourself to slow down, have your erection last longer and how to enjoy partnersex even after your penis has gone soft.

One of my big gripes about guys who want a woman to squirt is that not all of us have this response and some of us don't even like the way it feels. You'd love to "make" her squirt, but that's something she needs to learn IF she's at all interested. Listen to you own words. "I remember sometimes she cries out of joy....but those times were unplanned." How about more communication between you and your wife? Stop digging around inside her vagina so she will squirt and do some high class clitoral stimulation with your tongue and fingers. There's lots of information about female sexuality in my books and on the website. By all means take advantage of it.

Betty

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