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SEX FOR ONE
The Joy of Selfloving
Betty Dodson, Ph.D.

"Betty Dodson has created a fascinating, beautifully erotic work that is filled with sensitive, thoughtful information and insights." Penthouse magazine

LIBIDO
The Journal of Sex and Sensibility
Vol. 8 No. 3, Summer 1996

Review by Sharon Peters

A must-have for your sexuality library is the new paperback edition of Betty Dodson's liberating manifesto, Sex For One: The Joy of Selfloving.

Based on Dodson's self-published 1974 classic, Liberating Masturbation, and first published in 1986, Sex For One has been a steady seller over the last decade as its message reverberates among increasing numbers of women and men who through it have learned to take responsibility of sexual satisfaction into their own hands.

It's fundamental point - indeed, Dodson's fundamental point - is that culturally we're all wet about masturbation, as well as most sex. Even otherwise reasonable people on the subject of selflove, those who acknowledge that it's not a physically debilitating "solitary vice", rarely champion masturbation as a personal and social value. It's just too hard for most of us to drop into normal conversation a line like, "Oh, sure, I beat off all the time."

Not for Betty Dodson. In the faces of centuries of cultural momentum, she came to appreciate the liberating value of selflove, and a generation and a half ago stood up to proclaim loudly that masturbation is good for you. As a result she has endured a lifetime of abusive name-calling and worse. But to her undying credit, Dodson has been strong and wise enough to absorb all the hate, fear and general nonsense on the subject and turn it into positive energy. More than any other single person, Betty Dodson has been responsible for reshaping our cultural thinking on the subject.

This book, so highly personal in its approach, is a document of Dodson's strength, growth, understanding and unfailing good humor. I personally think this is an absolutely essential book, required reading for an adequate education in human sexuality. Even if you think of yourself as an expert on the subject, you'll learn things you didn't know about the safest sex. And you'll get a clear insight into the psyche of one of this century's most intrepid explorers of the self.

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"It's safe to say that Betty Dodson is responsible for inspiring more women to take sexual pleasure into their own hands than any other force on earth. Sex for One has changed the lives of millions." --Susie Bright, author of Susie Bright's Sexual Reality, Editor of Herotica III

"Sex for One proves once again that Betty Dodson is a pioneering and outstanding authority on masturbation. Read this remarkably honest and liberating book!" --Albert Ellis, Ph.D., author A New Guide to Rational Living

"After reading Sex for One, I can honestly brag about my sex life without exaggeration." --Harvey Fierstein, author of Torch Song Trilogy

"Sex for One by Dr. Betty Dodson is still just about the only good book around dedicated to masturbation. This is more of a cross between a personal narrative and an impassioned defense of the subject, but there is still plenty here in the way of excellent advice. It's also great reading in its own right. --Girl's Guide to Getting Off Alone, by the Mouth Organ Editors, maximag.com archived November 9, 1997


Short Takes from Readers

Dear Ms. Dodson:

Your book has profoundly affected the lives of at least two dozen women I know personally who have read it this last year. They range from my 19 year old daughter, other 50 year old peers, to gutsy ladies of 72 who have handled the surprise, delight and rage your insights have triggered. The debates have been great. I've actually had the courage to confront my physician, ask questions, and in turn have seen him make positive changes. All very rewarding.

Roberta, San Diego, CA

Dearest Betty Dodson,
About a year ago, a friend sent me your book, Sex for One. It changed my life and my feelings about myself. Even though I live alone, I was still hiding under the sheets or in the bathroom when I masturbated. Your book, along with encouragement from my friend showed me that self-pleasuring is OK! Off came the sheets, and out came the mirrors.

Sandy, CT

Hi Betty:

You are a beautiful beautiful person and your book should be required reading for everyone. Will we ever see this? Is there hope? In these days of AIDs and STDs you should be honored as a life-saving angel, a national hero My wife and I love you. Keep up the good work. You can and do make a difference. Thank you for opening our eyes.

Sinclair & Di, Palm Beach, FL

Dear Betty:

I have just finished reading your Sex for One for the second time, and I have been sharing it with special friends. It is nothing short of a masterpiece! You are to be highly commended for your open mindedness and your refreshing, progressive attitude.

Richard, Port Sanilac, MI

Dear Dr. Dodson,

I just finished Sex for One, and I feel totally empowered! I've never thought of my cunt as beautiful; instead, I thought it was deformed by excessive masturbation as you did. Now I'm beginning to view myself as beautiful and not as a slut or as a chronic masturbator. I'm starting a new campaign of feeling good about myself, and, thus, I hope to gain confidence in my sexual self and learn to enjoy my sexuality more than I already do.

Thanks for writing Sex for One and for being so open. You are definitely one of a kind!

Lynne

Dear Betty:

Congratulations and thank you for your excellent book, Sex for One. What an inspired, moving, funny, stimulating, heartfelt book. How I wish I'd had it when I was an adolescent. As a social worker and psychotherapist, I know I will use it to help many of my clients. I'm planning on give it as a Christmas gift to my family.

Scott, New York, NY

Dear Dr. Dodson:

I read your book, Sex for One, and it's of course excellent. I have degrees in education and psychology and many years experience working with young people, mostly boys. I've studied sexology for decades and never read a book that so forthrightly discusses the benefits and joys of masturbation. Very well done!

Alex, Wasilla, AK

Dear Betty:

I can't tell you how pleased I was to discover your beautiful, liberating book, Sex for One. I think masturbation is one of the most pleasurable experience on earth. Although I have never had any real hang-ups or problems with masturbation, it was still great to have your book to confirm all my feelings. Let me thank you for writing such a wonderful, poetic, loving book about masturbation. If more people in the world "loved themselves" more, in every sense of the term, I think a good deal of the earth's problems would be solved. Masturbation is freedom. Masturbation is joy. Masturbation is contentment.

Bert, Yorkton, Canada

Dear Ms. Dodson:

I purchased your book Sex for One for my wife and myself. We both read it and it has greatly enhanced our enjoyment of each other. Thank you very much for your honesty and hard work, it was a joy to hear someone speak in such an uninhibited manner of a subject that is mostly neglected in all sex education materials. If more people would avail themselves of this information and act upon it we would live in a happier and better adjusted society.

John, Montgomery, AL

Dear Dr. Dodson:

Thank you very much for writing Sex for One. Your style lends itself beautifully to your subject matter, and I believe anyone reading your book will not only be rewarded with new information about themselves, but more importantly, will be compelled to challenge some of the poisonous antisexual propaganda our culture insists on instilling on the young.

Denton, Moore Haven, FL

Dear Betty Dodson,

Your book, Sex for One, got passed around my office. The women were turned on to how beautiful the female genitals are, and the men were enlightened about how greatly women differ from one another. The images of your cunt portraits still linger in my mind and dreams. I feel more sexual for having seen them. Many people must love you.

Karen, New York, NY

Dear Betty Dodson,

I'm all turned on to your idea that sexual liberation is one of the major keys to women's liberation. Please send me fifteen copies of Sex for One. I want to give your book as a gift to my three younger sisters, my mother, my sister-in-law, and four of my friends, five women at work and myself, since I had to borrow a friend's copy to read it. I'm having fantastic orgasms. Thanks.

Nancy, Fairbanks, AK

Dear Betty:

After reading Sex for One I experienced my first ever guilt free orgasm masturbating. My method since I was four (I am 19 now) consists of putting my arm between my legs and then humping and thrusting. I have now started opening my eyes and fully accepting the feelings my body gives me. It's so emotionally satisfying and strength building! Many, many thanks, Betty.

Blair, Westport, CT

Dear Betty Dodson:

I am an 85 year old grandmother who enjoys masturbation. I would lose all my friends if they knew my real feelings! Your book, Sex for One, tells the truth.

Alice, Somerville, MA

Dear Betty:

Your book Sex for One is incredible! I am in love with the loving and powerful energy within! I'd love to meet you one day! Thank you for all your work and passion!

Rudiger, Portland, OR

Dear Betty,

Masturbation has given me much pleasure in the past couple of years, especially after I gave birth to my son, who is 2 1/2 now. I was so horny and not able to get enough pleasure sexually right after becoming a mother. I had been masturbating most of my life prior, but your book, Sex for One, opened up new horizons for me. I'm so happy I bought it. I must say I've had many wonderful orgasms after reading your words of wisdom and love.

Trish, Denver, CO


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