Hi, I recently became acquainted with your website and your work after reading "The Whole Lesbian Sex Book." I have a question for you that I've always been too nervous to talk about with anyone besides my lover. When I'm fooling around with a girl, I get really lubricated, and it just continues during sex to the point where I'm not really even turned on anymore, or even that sensitive, but still sopping wet. Is there anything I can do about this? I've searched online but every website that discusses lube focuses on lack of it, not too much of it. It's really becoming a nuisance and its affecting my sex life. Any advice on this would be greatly appreciated.
Nora

Dear Nora,

You're right about lubrication problems mostly dealing with dry vaginas. If I had to choose between having a dry pussy or one that is sopping wet, I'd go for wet. How about having a clean hand towel available for mopping her up periodically? I have no idea if this could be related to diet or hormones or it's just who you are sexually. I'd say that if your lover isn't complaining, simply accept it and see it as a blessing instead of a curse.

Betty

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