Dear Lorina, I doubt there is anything physically wrong with you. A woman’s search for sexual pleasure usually consists of wading through a lot of romantic crap until she finally discovers her clitoris and how to stimulate it. When you say, you get to the point when you feel contractions - like something is going to happen and then the feeling goes away - This sounds like a lot like my clients who think an orgasm is some kind of a grand happening when it’s closer to having a sneeze. Both are part of the autonomic nervous system that we can’t control with our minds. An orgasm can be quite subtle but if you don’t identify those little ones, they will never grow bigger. Another suspicious thing is that you say the “feeling goes away.” Yes, orgasm is a fleeting moment of pleasure that goes away. However if you are stimulating your clitoris manually or with a vibrator and continue doing so, those good feelings come right back and you can build up to another series of “contractions.” There is a woman in the UK who runs workshops for women using many of my ideas. Her name if Mary Clegg. Tel: 01264 358853. Email: mary@beecourse.com I’ll bet you can find some answers to your situation through her. Let me know what happens. Betty