Drawing by Betty Dodson

Dear Betty!

A male friend tells me that he has explored with two women, and that upon them reaching orgasm, they excreted approximately one to two liters of vaginal secretion. As a woman, I have never had such an experience when I have reached orgasm. My question: "Is that possible?" Thank You,

Helena

Dear Helena,

The female sex organ including the uterus and bladder are amazing organs capable of wonderful feats. The clitoral body is also far more extensive than we realize. Get my book "Orgasms For Two", and check out my drawings of the internal clitoris. As for your boyfriends comment, I fear he exaggerates when he describes women who expel vaginal fluids equal to two liters. That would be equivalent to more than two and a half bottles of wine! What a mess! It would soak through several towels, the sheet, mattress cover, and half way into the mattress itself. He's doing what so many of us do that's called "poetic license," like someone saying, "She cried a bucket of tears."

When it comes to women squirting during orgasm, the authors of the G-spot book reserve the term "female ejaculation" for a teaspoon or two of liquid that comes from the female prostate formerly called the Skeen's or para-urethral glands. You can go online and start checking out all the conflicting information and make up your own mind. Meanwhile, I remain the voice for women who do not squirt for a multitude of reasons and I do not feel I'm missing out on anything. My orgasms have been and still are very satisfying and they're mine, all mine.

Betty

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